Fear cannot live in my heart
Fear cannot live in my mind
If it does it will take the best of me
It will rob me of courage
It will hold me captive
It will strip me of my identity

So Fear will not live here in this house
Fear will not live here in my heart
Nor in my mind
I was made to be courageous
If God is for me who can be against me
I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me

I will accept those things I can not change
Others hearts
Others minds
Others choices
I have done my part
I am moving on in my life
I will not be afraid because God is with me.

I have no shame
I have no regret
And I will not fear failing
Because I will never be perfect
I will fall down
I will get back up again

I will continue to grow
My warrior princess heart
And follow Christ everyday of my life

Believing
Boldly Trusting
Brave

-- helmschick

These are the words that have been boldly on my mind. These are the themes in my life right now. What my heart seems to keep centering on and tuning into. It’s certainly not coincidence that moments, stories, books, and TV show episodes have caught my attention on these subjects. The Lord never ceases to amaze me. I get excited about these things and then I think uh-oh what am I about to learn or be taught.

It’s no surprise that all three of these words can be linked. Fear and doubt most definitely can play a role in our choices. I've been excited about what this chapter in my life may bring. However I have had my fears. I get fired up and say okay God lets go! Then I think okay but nothing too hard. That is when my fear of failure comes in. I don’t want things to be easy breezy though. I do want some challenges in my life. I wish I didn't doubt some of my abilities. I wish I didn't doubt how God can use me. I get inspired by the people He used in the Bible, as well as the people He uses now. Nothing is impossible with God. Then why do I waste my time on fear and doubt. Pshh.. I haven’t a clue other than the fact that I am human. As long as I don’t let it control me I think I’m doing okay. Maybe sometimes it’s because I need to remember scripture or a time when God has shown me his faithfulness. I've gotten a lot better at discerning when the spirit of doubt is tip-toeing its way in. I've been able to shut it down before days go by.

I've been a big advocate for good choices. I understand that all choices have consequences, even good choices. That can be really difficult. But, I’d rather be persecuted for doing what is right, then doing something that is wrong. I’m not always gonna do my best. Sometimes I make mistakes and fall short. When I do fall short I have to remember not to beat myself up. There’s another place doubt can slip in if I let it.

We all have fears and doubts and it’s important to rebuke it when necessary. Memorizing scripture or turning to prayer in these times is a good place to start. Remember who you are in Christ. I also like turning to Beth Moore’s five points:

“God is who He says He is.”
“God can do what He says He can do.”
“I am who God says I am.”
“I can do all things through Christ, who gives me strength.”
“God’s word is alive and active in me.”

(I actually have these written on a note-card taped over my kitchen sink.)

Peace, love, & (most importantly) Jesus,

helmschick --out

Frustration is your brain trying to figure out the why's of people’s behavior.

Acceptance is knowing in your heart that the why's still won’t justify the behavior. Plus trying to understand the behavior probably isn’t going to help either, because you won’t really understand, and most of the why’s never feel like good enough reason. So, basically brain needs to accept what heart already has. So, accept it brain and quit with the headaches already.

For the record I’m done with American Idol. Over it. I decided weeks ago. I really wasn't going to watch this season anyway. My love for music and curiosity got the best of me. But, now maybe I have closure. Jimmy Iovine is a big music exec, I get that. What I don’t get is why they have his criticism on every result show. For me it’s like nails on a chalkboard. Honestly I was recording it so I could fast forward his opinions. No offense Jimmy, plus its only my opinion anyway. But, isn't it kind of overkill?

Why is it so hard to make friends. Before I was married my closest friends were two guys. Then I married one of them. So, my closest friend is still a guy =). (hubby really is the other half of me) I have a few girlfriends that I've know for many years. Don’t get me wrong I’m uber grateful for these ladies, I just wish that as well as close to my heart they could be close in proximity.
It’s just really hard making new friends. I don’t want fair weather friends. I want Carpe Diem kinds of friends, you know.

I also really need to find me a Women’s Bible study to get involved in. A Women’s ministry even.

I went and saw The Lucky One today. I read the book and liked it. The movie was pretty good, but I wish it would have kept with the book a bit more. The cast was really good.  Maybe I shouldn’t read the books before seeing the movies anymore.

On another note, I am a very grateful woman. I love my ogre, haflings, grandpaws, and puppy dog. My hubby, kids, and critters bring me lots of joy. Through laughter and tears. I’m grateful for all God is doing. I’m grateful that He is still molding me and healing me. Imperfect saved by grace but somehow I feel humbly perfect in His unfailing love.

Peace, love, & Jesus,

helmschick --out

Currently Dubbed & Freq'd: A Remix Project By TobyMac see related Toby Mac was on the view this morning. He rocked it out and loved what he had to say. Love me some Toby Mac.

 Persuaded is the word of the day.

I've been persuaded to doubt what I do, how I write, and sharing it.Then I was persuaded to quit. However now I have been persuaded to make a statement. Doubt and fear are not allowed here!! It’s my blog and I will write if I want. Not only that but, I write because I am led to.



It’s my Blog
It’s therapy
It’s ranting and perhaps rambling
Love and joy
Pain and grief
It’s my blog
It’s my life

It’s being a Christian
Being a woman
Being a wife
It’s Being a mother
It’s my blog
It’s my life

It’s random?!?
It’s ordered
Relevant
A piece of Me
It’s my blog
It’s my life

It’s faith
It’s trust
Patience
Learning
Being obedient
It’s making mistakes
It’s my blog
It’s my life.

It’s hope
It’s How I roll
It’s How to Deal
It's my blog
It's my life.

Peace, love, & Jesus,

helmschick -out

P.S. I got me some TobyMac stuck in my head,

"Cause we wanna rise, We wanna touch the other side, We wanna soar, We wanna reach right out for more"  TobyMac, Tonight





Currently The Love Revolution By Joyce Meyer see related

One of the books I have been reading is called the Love Revolution. (Anytime I read or hear the word Revolution, I automatically hear the Beatles song queue... You say you wanna Revolution, well you know,We all wanna change the world.) This book is about different ways we can help and show love to others. Whether you can give money, time, or a smile even. A smile can change a persons day, no lie.

“It is a call to being.. being a person who helps a friend in need...who helps a stranger in need.. who practices aggressive acts of kindness.”

I like that phrase “Aggressive acts of kindness”. Kindness on Purpose! Sometimes it’s hard when we are all wrapped up in our own bubble of daily struggle. Some days we miss out. Some days we are the ones that need to be ministered to or shown love. It’s hard to make each day less about you, but it can be done.  

I take more time to smile and make eye contact with people. How many times have you been to the grocery store and the cashier only asks you for your money? Same  with out to eat or going through the drive-thru? What happened to hello? Yes, it’s annoying but instead of griping or rolling your eyes what if you show kindness. What if you smile and ask how are you doing. What if you say have a nice day. What about when you are driving down the road and someone cuts you off. Instead of getting annoyed or swearing, why not take a deep breath and remember you are not a perfect driver either.


As christians we are called to love. Not all of my friends are christians. I have some friends who don’t know what they believe. I have some friends who are atheist. However, whoever you are or what you believe, we could all be more kinder. I also hope that all of my friends know that I am here if you need someone to lend an ear, a prayer request, or if you need some positive reinforcement. Let’s all practice a little more kindness and show some love. We all need it.

Peace. love, & Jesus,

helmschick --out

P.S. Let us also not forget our please and thank yous. They go along way and are pretty simple acts of kindness.